This upcoming Saturday, the United States of America will turn 250 years old. In 250 years we as a nation were able to build systems of justice, advocacy, representation, and create communities who have each other. So, my question is: What does Fourth of July really mean?

Growing up in Stonington, I remember how my Muslim and Pakistani community would host the Fourth of July parties. One summer my mosque had a Fourth of July barbecue. I was with my friends enjoying the night away. Out of nowhere a little kid comes up to us eyes glowing with excitement. They squealed “You have to come NOW! The fireworks are starting!”  In less than a millisecond everyone starts to sprint, trying to find seats to watch the night show. Luckily my friends were successful. Now, did we have to push a few people to get the seats? Maybe, maybe not. I didn’t really care about the holiday at all when I was younger. It didn’t carry a huge amount of significance, It felt like a normal day where family friends would get together and everyone would be wearing the colors red, white, and blue.

Now, as a young adult with a little more knowledge my perspective has changed. To me, Fourth of July isn’t just a holiday, it is a part of my identity. I am proud to be an American. Being American is not to feel patriotic, instead it is the need to improve. The United States was created to be changed to fit our modern eras. Without the establishment of improving we would not have been able to celebrate 250 years of being a nation. With improving our laws to include more diversity and inclusion I feel that I am able to connect and learn from people all around the world, with different ideas, and talents. We truly are and hope to continue being the melting pot.

Over in Stonington, Historic Stonington has created the 250th celebration scavenger hunt and partnered with the Greater Mystic Chamber of Commerce’s GoMystic app. What’s so special about a scavenger hunt you might ask? Well, throughout Mystic to Pawcatuck you and your friends go to 18 locations and learn about the history. Take a picture of the location and keep track! If you get more than 9 locations you will then be entered in a raffle. Three winners will be selected to win a specialized package!

For the past 9 months I have been working in government. I am a constituent of Stonington and I have truly enjoyed my time being in this role. I was able to go to the capitol, take a trip to Washington D.C. where I talked to our officials like Rep.Courtney. Being able to connect with my fellow peers while also being able to understand who they are has felt extremely rewarding. However, working in government has also opened my perspectives on many issues that are hurting our communities. It’s important to acknowledge these issues. When we understand, we can learn to find solutions and continue to open more doors to success.

The other day I was taking a walk in downtown Mystic and I loved how many stores had their own unique decorations. As I made my way down to Main Street I saw the flag softly gliding in the wind. I spoke to many shops around downtown. Lise bakery has limited edition desserts like blueberry doughnuts, and different cookies representing the Fourth of July. Kaitlyn from The Spice and Tea Exchange of Mystic said that they didn’t have anything that was Fourth of July themed but they did have Bohea tea, The same tea that was dumped in the Boston Harbor. Although many shops didn’t have any Fourth of July decorations, many of the people I had talked to had a sense of patriotism and pride for the holiday. As I approached the shop Faherty, the young women working said that they were excited for the holiday to approach.

As I continued talking to other people's perspectives on the holiday I spoke to Chelsea Mitchell, director of the Woolworth library and research center.  We had a lovely conversation talking about the holiday, its patriotism, and what it truly means to be an American. History, literature, art, are truly the backbone of what makes our communities stronger. Without these creative outputs I believe that it doesn’t create a space for those who truly want to learn and explore.

“Fourth of July used to be my favorite holiday”. Chelsea noted

She continued by saying how much exposure we have around us. In our phones, televisions and everywhere we go it's like there’s always something going on all the time.

As our conversation continued I asked her if there is anything that we can do as a community to not feel overwhelmed?

”We can build a community from the ground up. You can still create the community you want, being able to remind people that togetherness renews our vows.”

Chelsea adds that despite the political tension “it’s ok to celebrate. it’s an accomplishment to be 250 years old”

To anyone who is interested in art, history, or anything local, I highly recommend paying a visit to the Woolworths Library and Research center!

The many archivals displayed at the WoolWorth Library

This year I am excited to celebrate with my loved ones. Just like every other year I will enjoy the fireworks, the field games and the time to really admire how the US has persevered to be 250 years old.

Let us know what you’ll be doing this weekend, have a great Fourth of July everyone!

Until next time, 

-Asar Malik

Asar is a local high school student with a passion for writing. Asar is spending time the Greater Mystic Chamber of Commerce writing about life in the Mystic area through her own perspective.